Praying Over Your Children in the New Year

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Praying Over Your Children in the New Year by Whitney Lett  With the New Year upon us, I begin to think about the things that I want to do in the next few months. Some of the ideas come quickly, and some require more thought. But there is one consistent commitment I make each year and that is to grow closer to the One to whom I've given my life. In order to have a relationship with my Savior, it is important that I read the love story that He has written to us on a daily basis. It is also important that I talk with Him throughout my day. I do that through prayer and meditation. I’ve learned to bring before Him the big things and the little things. One of the biggest things in my life is my family. As a momma, I am constantly in prayer for my children. As a boy momma, I’m consistently storming the gates of heaven pleading for mercy for those crazy kiddos with whom He’s blessed me. While praying recently I found myself asking God to reveal to me exactly how I should be praying for these beloved boys of mine. He took me to the sixth chapter of Mathew where He was instructing the disciples how to pray. We commonly refer to this section as The Lord’s Prayer. After reading through it again I realized that although Christ was physically speaking to His twelve closest followers, He means for each of us to pray in the same way. So here is how I am praying for my boys: Our Father in heaven, Your name be honored as holy. Father, may my boys come to know You as their Savior. May they learn to honor Your name and understand that You alone are holy. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Father, I beg that Your return would be soon, but until that day I ask that Your will be carried out in the lives of my boys. No matter what that entails, no matter where that takes them, and no matter if it makes any sense to me at all, may Your will be done. Give us today our daily bread. Thank You for each and every provision that You make in our lives. Help my children to understand that not one thing comes to us that doesn’t pass through Your Providential hands. Even the very breath that gives us continued life comes from You. May we always be grateful. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. Thank You for the cancellation of our debts through the atoning death of Your Son. May my sons come to know the depth of that sacrifice that was given for them. May they also become men that know how to forgive and extend grace and love to those in their path. And do not bring us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. I know that evil abounds in this world, but I ask Your protection over my boys. May they come to know that though the thief comes to steal and destroy and that darkness is prevalent, You are more powerful than all the forces of evil. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. Father, I thank You and praise You for all that You are. May our family always bow before the great I AM. May we continually look forward to the day when we will be in Your very presence. It is in Your holy name that I pray, Amen. However you choose to pray for your children, just know that when you do this, it is a sweet fragrance to the Lord. He loves to talk to you about your children. He is there in the struggles and He’s also there celebrating each milestone with you. Praying over your children has a benefit that lasts long into adulthood. From personal experience I can tell you that there is nothing more comforting than knowing that my momma and daddy are praying over my me and my husband as we raise our boys. In order to pass on your love of prayer to your children I have a great book suggestion for you. Max Lucado and his wife Denalyn have just come out with a delightful children’s book called Lucado Treasury of Bedtime Prayers: Prayers for Bedtime and Every Time of Day! Max and Denalyn believe that prayer is the foundation of a believer’s life. They offer this book as a wonderful resource to teach your children how to talk to God.  * * * What better way to begin the New Year? Making a commitment to Read the Holy Scriptures and pray for our children and families? As a long time believer, I have struggled to get into the Word on a daily basis, I still don't pray like I know that I should. Would you step out in faith and make a commitment with me to Our Father in Heaven to read His Word, and Pray daily for your families? It must be a deliberate thing. It doesn't matter when you do it, when you first get up, on your lunch break, before you go to bed, or better yet, when you get up, on your lunch break, and when you tuck the children in at night. A good prayer life is an important part of your Christian walk, as is daily reading of the Word. In fact, they are a great gift to give your family, as a legacy, something that you train your children to do, and as an active gift that you do. It is also a wonderful thing to be able to do together. This past Advent Season, I made a commitment to do nightly Advent readings from a booklet we got at our Church. It wasn't always easy. In fact, a few times, we fell behind, and had to play catch up, this tells me that I need to be more deliberate in it. At advent, it can be hard, because there are only two weeks in which to do this, it takes three weeks for something to become a habit, I hate using that word, because it has such a stigma associated with it. But there is great truth in it. That is why I am challenging myself, and you to commit to doing this so that by the time the Advent Season rolls around again I will be in the habit of doing this so that we don't fall behind. As to the scripture readings, I use both Our Daily Bread and Reading plans from YouVersion. These are very handy because you can share it with others which will encourage them to get into the habit as well as allow them to hold you accountable. It was great to see my children's eyes light up as we read through the scriptures and commentary readings. It was heartwarming to me to see their heads bowed and hands folded as we prayed together the simple prayers at the end of the readings. My Dad did these sort of things when we were growing up, and as I grew older, I fell into the routine of being too busy to continue in them. I realize now that I wasted a lot of time that I could have been learning more about the word, talking to my God and King, my Lord and Saviour. Doesn't he deserve that level of commitment from us after all as we see in Romans 5: 7-9 : Christ's Sacrifice for the Ungodly …7For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die. 8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 9Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him. I feel like that warrants some commitment on my part, don't you? My brothers, we as men, are called to be the Spiritual leaders in our homes. We as men, in our society are not stepping up, myself included. Let's make the New Year that we do that. Let's not waste any more of our, or our family's valuable time, life is too short, and too precious a gift for us to let anyone be cast into the pit because we failed to do our part. God Bless you and keep you and yours in this New Year. -Michael

Warnings against consulting Mediums, Familiar Spirits, Necromancers, Tarot, Etc.

This is likely going to rub some people the wrong way, possibly even family members. But I really feel that it needs to be addressed. I am not sure if it will make any changes in behaviour in anyone who uses these types of "services" or not, but it is heavy on my heart just the same, and I believe that if the Lord is impressing it on my heart, it must be meant for someone.


Lev 20:6 ¶
And the soul that turneth after such as have familiar spirits, and after wizards, to go a whoring after them, I will even set my face against that soul, and will cut him off from among his people.


So if we break this down and look at it in the Hebrew, the word soul is translated: soul, self, life, creature, person, appetite, mind, living being, desire, emotion, passion, the living man. The word for turneth should be quite obvious, it means to turn, to look to, to consult. Familiar spirits translates ghost, spirit of a dead one. This can be done via card readings, through mediums, many ways, and in any way the scripture says that it is wrong. It says that God will set his face against the person who does this.


Lev 19:31 ¶
Regard not them that have familiar spirits, neither seek after wizards, to be defiled by them: I am the LORD your God.

God tells us here that we aren't to regard, or look to them that have or consult familiar spirits. That by doing so we make ourselves unclean or defile ourselves.


Deu 18:10
There shall not be found among you any one that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch,

Deu 18:11
Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer.

Deu 18:12
For all that do these things are an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.

Deu 18:13
Thou shalt be perfect with the LORD thy God

Again, we can see that God considers these things an abomination, and that HE will turn his face from you. He actually also says that HE will drive those that practice this, or consult those who practice this out of the Nation of Israel. There are several other places in the Old Testament where God condemns these practices, but before anyone can say, that is Old Testament Law, let's look at some Scripture in the New Testament where the same things are addressed. 

Act 16:16-19  16 And it came to pass, as we went to prayer, a certain damsel possessed with a spirit of divination met us, which brought her masters much gain by soothsaying: 17 The same followed Paul and us, and cried, saying, These men are the servants of the most high God, which shew unto us the way of salvation. 18 And this did she many days. But Paul, being grieved, turned and said to the spirit, I command thee in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her. And he came out the same hour. 19 And when her masters saw that the hope of their gains was gone, they caught Paul and Silas, and drew [them] into the marketplace unto the rulers,

So here we see that the Apostle Paul cast spirits of Diviniation (Fortune Telling) out of a woman. This woman brought her masters much gain (riches) by soothsaying, (again, telling the future). When her masters saw what Paul and Silas had done, they caught them and took them into the marketplace unto the rulers, presumably to stand trial.

Our next section that we are looking at we can see that the scripture tells us that we are not to believe every spirit. That we are test the spirits, whether they are of God. This would seem to imply that spirits do have the ability to communicate, but that there are spirits that have information that our loved ones may have had, but can be evil spirits. God does not reveal things to us by spirits of our deceased. He may send an angel in the guise of a loved one, that may comfort us, it is important to remember that this is a comforting angel, and is not the same as a spirit that you would consult at a medium. The test as to whether a spirit is of God, or of evil is that spirits that are not of God cannot confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh.

1Jo 4:1-3 KJV 1 Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. 2 Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God: 3 And every spirit that confesseth not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is not of God: and this is that [spirit] of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and even now already is it in the world.

So here you can see several instances both from the Old and New Testaments with warnings about consulting Mediums, Familiar Spirits, Necromancers (those who talk to the dead), Fortune Telling of any kind. As Christians we are not to do these things. We are to cut ourselves off from them as God does, and keep them out of our homes. When we do not do this, we are inviting those spirits into our houses, and into our lives to influence us. Is it any wonder that we live in such chaos when we bring these things into our homes and lives? Brothers and Sisters, cleanse your house of these things if you have them. Like the idols of old, using these things is serving satan, worshiping satan, there is no such thing as a good witch, or a white witch. Any power derived from witchcraft and these other types of things can only come from one source, satan.

Peace to you all  in the name of Jesus the Christ.

-Michael

The Christmas Season is once again upon us.

In my Our Daily Bread devoition this morning the Scripture reference was 1 Timothy 6:6-10 King James Version (KJV) (more of my thoughts on this below)

6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.
7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.themselves with many griefs.

It amazes me that so many of my devotionals lately have been on contentment lately, as I have mentioned to you guys in the past, contentment is a discipline that I learned while I was wrongfully incarcerated. I firmly believe that God allowed me to go through that trial to teach me how to be content where ever I was, in whatever the situation that I found myself in as well as to strengthen my family relationships and prepare us both for future trials and to assist others who had been through or were going through similar trials, even also to reach out to those who were in prison, and likely belonged there. It seems appropriate to me that God would continue to impress this on our hearts, especially during this time of year when we are bombarded with advertising for the "Christmas Season". Think about it, our children are bombarded with ads for every kind of toy and video game out there, we are bombarded with ads for new cars, new furniture we should treat ourselves to. But so many, yes, even Christians forget the reason that we celebrate this blessed time of year. We give gifts to others in remembrance of the wonderful gift that was given to us. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that it is wrong to receive gifts, or even to want nice things, the idea though is to not let those things become idols by allowing them to displace the things in our hearts that God wants our hearts to be filled with, Love for Him, Love for our families, Love for others. Those are the things that endure. 
Matthew 24:35 "Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away." This includes all earthly possessions.

 
The things that won't pass away are found in 1 Corinthians 13
Love1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. 

2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. 

3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 

6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 

7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. 

9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. 

10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. 

11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. 

13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
Love endures all. Remember that this Christmas Season!

Drinking the Poision, and Waiting for the Other Person to Die

My devotionals the last two days have dealt with Forgiveness. This is a very important topic for us to understand, so I really want to spend some time with it here and see if we can't get to the bottom of this wonderful word that is so hard for us to practice, but as believers was laid out for us so easily that we simply have to rach out and take it.

Scripture Texts:
 Ephesians 4:31-32
 Deuteronomy 29:18

Supporting Scriptures:
Matthew 6:14, 15; 18:35
Mark 11:25
Hebrews 12:15
Colossians 3:8
1 Peter 2:1

In Ephesians 4:31-32 we read: Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

So what are these verses all about? Let's get a little deeper and look beneath the words on the page and see if we can't figure this out. What we have in the verses above is Christ's law of forgiveness as taught in the Gospels See the supporting scriptures above. This is also found in the Lord's prayer "Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors." God does not forgive us because we forgive others, but out of His great mercy.

In Matthew 6:14-15 we read Jesus' Words " For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (italics mine)

So what does this mean? In these verses Jesus is giving us a startling warning about forgiveness: if we refuse to forgive others, God also forgives to forgive us. Why? Is it because God does not love us? No, we are God's children, and he will love us no matter what, the reason behind this warning is simply this: When we don't forgive others, we are denying our common ground as sinners in need of God's forgiveness. God's forgiveness, however, is not the direct result of our forgiving others, but it is based on our realizing what forgiveness means Reference again Ephesians 4:32 ( And be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.) It is very easy for us to ask God for forgiveness, but it is extremely difficult for us to grant forgiveness to others. Whenever we ask God to forgive us for sin, we should ask ourselves, "Have I forgiven the people who have wronged me?" Just like when we take Communion, we have a silent moment to examine ourselves, to see if we have any unconfessed sin, which includes unforgiveness toward another. If we do, we should let the communion elements pass us by until we have confessed that sin, or given that forgiveness to the one who wronged us. It is important for us to forgive the other person, even if they do not know or think that they have done anything for which they need forgiveness. Forgiving someone has to do with the condition of your heart, NOT THEIRS.

How many times have you harboured unforgiveness in your heart toward another, who either wronged you, or you perceived has wronged you, and how many times have you been like the Miserable, depressed, and emotionally broken person hunched over a chemistry set. His eyes are narrow, his lips are pursed. His fingers are adding just a pinch of this and a dash of that to the acrid green fluid in the test tube before him.

He spends all his time mixing up this poison, and when it is finally done, he drinks the poison and says "This will show him/her!"
We (the man in our story) spend and waste so much time and effort, hardening our hearts with outdated images of all of the past wrongs that they have done to us, harbouring it, allowing it to fester until it finally turns to bitterness and Hate. 

Bitterness is a toxin that we prepare for someone else, but then drink ourselves. This blogger has been there and done that, I got the T-Shirt. Don't let your life be filled with this bitterness. Go to that brother/sister and forgive them unconditionally, explain why God desires for you to forgive them, even if they do not fully realize what is going on, they will be influenced by it and your heart and mind will be free from the torturous, bittnerness that twists your mind so that you can't think straight.

In Deuteronomy 29:18 We read: Lest there should be among you man, woman, or family, or tribe, whose heart turneth away this day from the Lord our God, to go and serve the gods of these nations; lest there should be among you a root that beareth gall and wormwood:

Here Moses is cautioning that the day that the Hebrews chose to turn from God, a root would be planted that would produce bitter fruit-Gall and Wormwood. What are Gall and Wormwood? 
Easton's Bible Dictionary has the following description:

 Heb. mererah, meaning "bitterness" ( Job 16:13 ); i.e., the bile secreted in the liver. This word is also used of the poison of asps ( 20:14 ), and of the vitals, the seat of life (25).

When we decicde to do what is wrong, we plant an evil seed that begins to grow out of control, eventually yielding a crop of sorrow and pain. But we can prevent those seeds of sin grom taking root. If you have done something wrong, confess it to God and others (Especially those who you may have wronged) immediately. If the seed never finds fertile soil, its bitter fruit will never ripen.

Let's close now in a brief word of prayer:

Heavenly Father God, thank you for your word that we might learn to rightly divide the word of truth. Thank you Father for the gift of your son who became my sin, so that I could put on Him, and be clothed in His righteousness. Because of Him, you no longer see the wretch that I was. Please bring to my mind unforgiveness that I have been harbouring towards others, give me the strength and courage to bring that to their attention, not in an accusatory way, but in a gentle, loving way that will show that I am just there offering forgiveness, not expecting anything from them in return. Help me demonstrate the Love that Christ Jesus showed me when He died for me while I was yet a sinner. Thank your for that precious gift of life, and for your eternal mercy. In Christ Jesus name, Amen